A traditional wedding reception typically involves a sit-down dinner of some type or a buffet at a rented venue. It is the portion of the event where everyone “lets their hair down” and celebrates the new union. There is generally food and music.
There are, however, alternatives to the traditional type of reception described above. If you're looking to cut cost or who just want to do something a little bit different you may want to consider one of the following fun reception alternatives. They include, the picnic reception, cocktail reception, barbeque reception or champagne and cake reception. We’ll look at each of these in more detail below.
The Picnic Reception: This type of reception is perfect for spring, summer or fall weddings. Getting everyone outdoors and serving picnic fare is a fun way to change things up. It also makes for a much more relaxed atmosphere. The type of food served will typically be cheaper then what would be expected at a sit-down dinner or even a buffet. You and your fiancé may want to cater the reception or cook everything beforehand. If the number of people invited to the wedding is fairly small, the latter might not be too difficult. It will, however, require some pre-planning.
Cocktail Reception: Instead having a traditional reception where a meal is served, you may want to throw a cocktail reception instead. Drinks and a few light snacks would be the only items served. It would be a good idea to mention that a cocktail reception will be following the ceremony so that people are prepared and not anticipating a meal.
Barbeque Reception: This type of reception would be great if you would like your wedding to have a warm, intimate feel. What’s more down-to-earth than a barbeque? Steak, chicken and sausages should be served as well as a few sides and drinks. A barbeque reception could be hosted at the your home or that of one of your parents.
Champagne and Cake Reception. : A champagne and cake reception is a much cheaper option then a traditional reception where a meal is served. It is possible to make this type of affair both classy and tasty. Champagne and cake isn’t a bad combination.
If you would rather not throw a traditional reception don’t have to. The rules or traditions which govern such things aren’t as stringent as they used to be.
The important thing to remember when changing up your wedding reception is that it's YOUR wedding reception. Don't let people say 'you can't do that' or 'it's just not done that way'.
It's your day, your choice and ultimately those who love you will be happy for you no matter if you're all standing in the middle of a cow pasture, hip-deep in mud with rubber boots on (now wouldn't that be a sight for a wedding reception - ha!).